The Perfect Groom’s Speech - San Diego Wedding

Joshua and Jonathan were married on September 1, 2015 at the Marine Corps Recruit Depot.

I know saying “never” is, ahem, never a good thing. But in this case I hope to hold to that promise.

Today I am writing about a same-sex wedding, and I’m promising to “never” write about it again. Especially to never categorize a wedding as “same-sex," since after all, it’s a wedding, no labels needed.

When I served as a wedding DJ for my first same-sex wedding, I decided to write about it because the experience made me realize seeing two people on their wedding day essentially looks the same regardless of gender. And I just wanted to document that. That’s really all I had to say on the matter.

But then I DJ’d Joshua and Jonathan’s wedding and it was even more, dare I say, “unusual.”

In paraphrasing Joshua’s own words, it was a same sex, interracial wedding taking place on a military base …. on a Tuesday.

I had actually made that observation in my head early on in the evening, but when it came time for the two of them to address their guests, Joshua delivered one of the most perfect grooms speech I’ve ever heard.

And I wanted to make sure you heard it too.

Joshua and Jonathan’s Dance Party - Marine Corps Recruit Depot Wedding

Joshua and Jonathan’s wedding took place on September 1, 2015. Now look at a calendar. Yes, that is indeed a Tuesday. I’m pretty sure that this is the first time in my DJ career I’ve worked a Tuesday wedding. 

And no, it had nothing to do with a midweek discount, it was just a special date to Joshua. His grandparents, who he was close to, were married on that same date many years ago and he wanted something to have something to share with them. Pretty special.

Their wedding ceremony and reception took place at the Bayview Restaurant on the Marine Corps Recruit Depot. A great venue that is right on the shore of San Diego Bay and adjacent to Liberty Station.

They also had a unique idea, each escorting their mother-in-laws through their circular shaped aisle.

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Successful end to a Tuesday night wedding at MCRD in San Diego with these two grooms. Congratulations Joshua and Jonathan. 

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Joshua is also a friend of mine, a guy who I share weekly workouts and sweaty hugs with at November Project, a free fitness group that is in more than 20 cities across the United States and Canada.

This is the best I could do in finding a picture of Joshua and I. Not only are there no pictures of just the two of us, they are no normal pictures of us. 

J & J’s wedding party was great fun, especially since I had many other friends on the dance floor.

Here is their setlist and a few more photos at the end:
Mother/Son Dances

• Celine Dion - Because You Loved Me
• Minnie Rippington - Loving You

Parents Dance

• Luther Vandross - Here And Now

Open Dancing - First Set

• Al Green - Let's Stay Together
• Jackson 5 - I Want You Back
• K.C. & the Sunshine Band - Boogie Shoes
• Michael Jackson - Billie Jean
• Britney Spears - I'm a Slave For You
• Usher - Yeah (Wedding Crasherz Break) (Short Edit)
• Natalie La Rose, Jeremih - Somebody (Select Mix Remix)
• Britney Spears, Iggy Azalea - Pretty Girls (Select Mix Remix)
• Bell Biv Devoe - Poison
• Whitney Houston - How Will I Know (Select Mix Remix)

Cake Cutting

• John Legend - All Of Me

Open Dancing - Second Set

• Macklemore & Ryan Lewis f./Mary Lambert - Same Love (Radio Edit)
• Bob Marley - Could You Be Loved
• Fat Joe - Get It Poppin'
• Rihanna - S&M
• Icona Pop f./Charli XCX - I Love It (Promo Only Intro Edit)
• Britney Spears - Till The World Ends
• Taylor Swift - Shake It Off (Select Mix Remix)
• Tupac - California Love (Original Version)
• Notorious B.I.G. - Hypnotize
• Dr. Dre - Next Episode
• Naughty By Nature - Hip Hop Hooray
• Backstreet Boys - I Want it That Way
• Maroon 5 - Sugar
• Marky Mark & The Funky Bunch - Good Vibrations (Select Mix Remix)
• 2 In A Room - Wiggle It (Select Mix Remix)
• Technotronic - Pump Up The Jam

Last Dance

• Walk The Moon - Shut Up And Dance (Select Mix Remix)

Vendor Team

DJ/Master of Ceremonies: Justin Kanoya, DJ Kanoya Productions

Venue: Marine Corps Recruit Depot

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